The Dating Log
A private tracker for meeting people - who they are, how each date went, and what to do next. Your records stay in this browser only.
| Profile / Contact | Date Details | The Vibe & Ratings | Conversation Notes | Green Flags & Watchouts | Gut Check & Next Steps | ||||||||||||||
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| Name | Where met | Status | Last contact | Date # | Date / time | Location | Activity | Flow | Spark | Overall | Key topics | Details | Open qs | Green flags | Concerns | See again? | Next action | Follow-up | |
| Taylor Bennett | Online book club | Ended | Jul 30 | #4 | Jul 28, 7:30 PM | Riverside Market | Street food festival | Books, family, long-term goals | Wants kids in ~5 years; we diverged on that timeline | None - settled with them | Communicative, honest, respected the conversation | Timelines for family didn't align | No | Ended on good terms | — | ||||
| Riley Quinn | Volunteer event | Ghosted | Aug 28 | #2 | Aug 25, 7:00 PM | The Hideout | Board games and tacos | Shared love of documentaries, trivia nights | Competitive but gracious; knows a lot of local trivia | Stopped replying after the second date | Fun, thoughtful, dependable when engaged | Went quiet without explanation | No | Let it go; no follow-up needed | — | ||||
| Jordan Lee | Cooking class | Paused | Sep 9 | #2 | Sep 6, 7:30 PM | Casa Luna | Salsa dancing lesson | Travel stories, both wanting to learn to sail | Loves spicy food, allergic to shellfish | On a break for work travel for a few weeks | Easy to talk to, curious, confident | Travel schedule makes momentum hard | Unsure | Reach out after their trip is done | Oct 5 | ||||
| Sam Whitfield | Mutual friend's party | Talking | Sep 15 | #1 | Sep 12, 8:30 PM | Blue Note Lounge | Drinks and live jazz | Their work in architecture, music taste | Plays guitar in a weekend band; from Portland | Speed of texting feels a bit slow; is it interest or busy? | Punctual, warm goodbye, offered to plan next | Hard to read via text between dates | Unsure | Wait a few days, then suggest a second date if texts stay warm | Sep 22 | ||||
| Alex Rivera | Hiking meetup | Dating | Sep 20 | #3 | Sep 18, 7:00 PM | Kitteridge Brewing | Dinner and a walk along the river | Family, travel plans, mutual love of climbing | Has a golden retriever named Juno; drives a little blue hatchback | Where they grew up; what their week looks like | Asks real follow-ups, plans specifics, laughs easily | Slightly guarded about past relationships | Yes | Suggest a Saturday morning hike + picnic | Sep 25 | ||||
| Morgan Carter | Bumble | First Date | Sep 21 | #1 | Sep 19, 6:00 PM | Northside Bakery | Coffee and pastries | Their recent move to the city, photography hobby | New in town, works remote, wants local recommendations | Chemistry felt flat - could be first-date nerves | Kind and polite, asked questions about me | Low energy, vague about what they want | No | Send a short thanks; leave ball in their court | — | ||||